sigh, ok. So, now I am in a relationship. I have an official boyfriend and he is great! The only catch is that I miss spending time alone. I am a LONER, I like my to be by myself, do my own thing, and get lost in my thoughts. It feels very strange to expend so much of my energy into another human being. I am happy that he is in my life. I have never felt connected(mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically) to any man more than I do with him. He is everything I have asked for (and I even wrote down his specific qualities). We have a lot of fun together, but it is draining me.